How do you transition an elderly parent to assisted living?

You transition an elderly parent to assisted living by hiring movers, taking care of logistics and staying in touch. For many of us, moving an elderly loved one into assisted living is tough. It’s a transition for both parties, but the emotional elements often get left behind. The moving process extends beyond packing the perfect checklist of personal belongings; it’s an ambitious endeavor that touches us to the very core.

As the ones responsible for the move, it’s important to face the process with a person-centered approach that considers our elderly parent every step of the way. Thankfully, keeping some simple steps in mind will help make the process easier for everyone involved.

Before the move, your top priority should be discussing the move with your parent. Make sure to check in on your elderly parent every step of the way. Ask how they’re doing, how they’re feeling and if there’s anything you can do to ease feelings of tension or stress. They may appreciate the consistent support and communication more than you know.

Get the ball rolling by hiring movers, canceling utilities and changing their mailing address. Your chosen assisted living community may recommend a senior-friendly moving company. Read online reviews, get cost estimates and confirm the move-in date.

Next, update your loved one’s mailing address and ensure this new data is given to the postal service and the Social Security Administration, along with any companies they pay routine bills to.

Finally, disconnect or cancel any utilities and ongoing services, including water, electricity and gas, cable, streaming services and monthly subscriptions. Also, ensure that your loved one’s friends and family members have their new address and phone number.

Once your elderly parent has moved in, it may take time to acclimate to their new surroundings, but you can help ease that transition by staying in touch. Give them a call, send photos and encourage them to make connections. It’s a good idea to schedule reminders so you can contact them at the same time every day.

Inspire other loved ones and friends to reach out as well; your parent may appreciate the regular reminder that someone cares. Start scheduling visits to the community so that everyone can come say hi in person. When you do visit, bring along a favorite blanket, comforting decor or family photos to help your loved one feel more at home.