What To Do When You First Learn a Loved One Has Alzheimer's - Get the full To Do list

Why you need Alzheimer's support and how to find it
Caring for someone with this disease is usually a new, strange experience. Its many emotional and practical challenges make burnout a huge risk. Two community services you'll need most:

Respite services

Day services (also called adult daycare) give caregivers much-needed, regular breaks. People with Alzheimer's attend these programs and facilities at regular times for supervised activities, therapy, or recreation. A program specializing in dementia is preferable. In-home respite care brings a paid professional (such as an elder companion or a home-health aide) or volunteer to the home to do the same when a loved one needs constant supervision.

Support groups

A support group is a great place to learn care strategies, hear about local resources, and exchange ideas and release some stress along with others in the same situation. Caregivers and other family members may attend; there are also special groups for children. Groups just for people with early-stage Alzheimer's can make them feel less isolated and distressed.

To find local Alzheimer's support, ask:

Your local area agency on aging, an adult daycare service provider, or a geriatric care manager.
The nearest Alzheimer's Association chapter (call the 24-hour hotline at 800-272-3900).
The doctor treating your loved one.
Your place of worship (many run programs).
Your local hospital (many run programs).

Don't overlook online support groups for Alzheimer's family members and caregivers for free, anonymous, 24-hour support.